He repaid at the end of the month

Dating financially irresponsible man

Halima knows this only too

He comes off poorly educated and will only succeed in negatively influencing your own vocabulary. Even meeting new singles and dating involves some amount of expenses - whether you are a guy and taking a girl out or are being taken out and wish to spend on your appearance.

He has no regard for spirituality or God. It shows a strong, dependable commitment from the man. He probably grew up in a deprived background and now that he has money, he just spends and spends. Surprisingly, he said he had zero balance. We've all suffered dating woes and some people are still going through them as I type.

Halima knows this only too well. This guy seems to be unable to construct one well-thought out sentence without a vulgar inclusion of some sort. He plainly said his baby mama is now working, and she can manage to raise their son without his assistance. Even Kanye West is not going to come right out and call someone a gold digger.

Though it is important to enjoy what you do for a living, a man or woman whose only criteria for working is the ease of a job is more likely to be a slacker and incapable of taking up a challenge. Every call or text from him is about sex. If you're valuable to him he won't hesitate to tell people.

If he doesn't have the same values or life goals as you do there is no way you can really consider him true husband material. If he can't respect and appreciate God, you'll have quite the battle trying to get him to respect and appreciate you.

To me, the main problem seems to be in the guys we choose to date. Sometimes let him learn his lesson the hard way. It shows they care more about appearances rather than being responsible about their future.

Even though savers are perceived as less exciting, adventurous and fun than spenders, people prefer dating savers, according to research. Beware of entangling yourself with such partners since this is not only evidence of an inability to take responsibility but may even indicate a tendency to sponge on financially well-off people. That is a major red flag that you're on the highway to absolutely nowhere.

Now I don't expect him to be a pastor and quote scripture every second but he has to have an understanding and appreciation for his Creator and his life. Don't get confused ladies, just because first date sex has become more commonplace doesn't make it any less insulting. Your partner should live a life that inspires you spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. When the man settles the bill, it makes the woman feel he values her company, and is willing to invest in their relationship.

This guy seems to

The good skin, chiseled features, I'm-too-sexy-for-my-shirt guy. Indeed increasingly women are bearing dating expenses as their earning power rises.