Any other way simply will not do

Feeding The Attention Whore

My wife and IEven if they

The fact of the matter is, she wants attention and she wants it now. Maybe some people just like the way that loud music feels and give a crap less if you look or not. They're attracted to jerks. And teasing or giving subtle hints I find ethically problematic. It puts you, the statement giver, more in charge.

The advice given is around

Its not the best feeling to feel like there is absolutely no control. The advice given is around what to do in the face of not getting a mature response out of that mature conversation. There is no reason for this drama. It can be very flattering as attention whores are often charming and pretty. Cuddle, and then take it further, step by step.

My wife and I went through that phase, and even though she's not really an attention whore, when she rejected me and I either flamed out or pouted, she used my reaction to brow-beat me into betahood. When she turns you down for sex, you give her no drama or grief about it.

Generally the only thing that works in sexless marriages is serious action. You simply move on with your day.

Tom That feeds into the attentionIt can be veryThere is no

If she asks you what you are doing you can say that you think that she might need some time for herself and you still wanted to do some reading, calling one of the guys, whatever. In the end I suppose you win.

So there is no wayYou simply move

Addressing her emotional need for a strong dominate man who takes action is how you show you understand this. But immaturity is a trait that is especially unique to the attention whore. Great article, lots of helpful tips. If you still give her the non-sexual affection and attention she wants, then you've lost your leverage. Here are the four that, in my experience, work best.

When she turnsWife or not thatGenerally the only

Even if they won't admit it. Wife or not, that top attention spot has to be earned. So there is no way to confront her annoyance. Tom, That feeds into the attention whore mentality in a negative way.

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